negative effect

someone said something awhile ago. "There's nothing like a negative comment". By that she meant that a negative comment is there to build you up, give you a different view, question yourself. a comment is negative or positive depending on the receiver of the comment.

If you only hear comments as negative then... that's a more a reflection of you

i think it's ok to have negative comments, they dont change who you are or the relationship that you have. the delivery of a comment is makes a difference though.